Anyone thinking of entering the escorting industry will have a lot of things to consider, but when you come from a strong cultural background, these considerations can be more complicated.
Here are some things to consider if you’re thinking about becoming an Indian escort in London or any other British city:
Why do you want to work as an escort? Are you motivated by money, no-strings sex and intimacy or the opportunity to forgo tradition, even if it’s just for an hour at a time?
Your personal reasons may all be justified, but becoming an escort will only satisfy you if you can deal with the emotional conflicts it may cause. If breaking with your traditional values makes you feel guilty or anxious about your family finding out then you’re trading one emotional difficulty for another.
Regardless of religion, if you’re thinking of becoming an escort then it’s possible that your perception of yourself and how you want to live your life will differ from the way your family thinks you should behave.
Escorts, of all cultures, have to make the difficult decision about whether they should tell their family or friends about their work. If, as an Indian woman, you fear disapproval or rejection, then that decision needs to be thought through very carefully.
You may interpret the doctrines of your culture, particularly your religious beliefs in a more modern way than your parents or peers do and if you’re discreet and tactful – the hallmarks of any good escort – then there’s no need for your views to clash with theirs.
There are ways to tell your parents without upsetting. You alone have made the decision to be a companion or masseuse and they should not feel bad about that. At the end of the day small details such as how you advertise yourself online, should you be ‘Londons cheapest escort‘ or ‘Classy high end companion’, do not need to be mentioned.
Love the life you live. You may decide not to confide in your friends or family out of respect for their beliefs, just make sure to take extra care – stay safe and keep your professional and personal lives separate.
Becoming a successful Indian escort means finding a balance between offering a service of companionship that allows you to enjoy the profession without creating too much inner conflict.
Fortunately there are no hard and fast rules for escorting so finding that balance is actually quite easy. If you want to spend time in the company of men for lunch dates, then you can offer this and nothing more. If you prefer to offer a high-class courtesan service to an exclusive client or two, then you can do that too.
The best thing to do is carry out a little research. Do a lot of Googling and look at other Indian escort ads to see how they describe and market themselves. Take the time to compile your ad carefully to make sure that you’re totally happy with the role you’re stepping into before you post it here on Vivastreet.
There are plenty more tips and advice here in the Vivastreet After Dark adult blog about all aspects of the escorting profession and if you can’t find the answers you’re looking for, just post a question in the comments below or ask the friendly escort community over on our Twitter page @VivaAdult_UK.